Tuesday, August 10, 2010

DIVORCES

I'm happily married but...Image by Hadar via Flickr

why has divorces continue to be on the rise.I mean our system is not design to keep couples together.lawyers profit from and kids suffer from it.

outside of abusive spouse or a cheating spouse there should not be a real reason for one,well i am sure many will disagree with me.

I am mainly talking about the couple that decides they will get married and if it don't work we get divorce.now if you go into a marriage already thinking that more in likely it will fail and you go on your very merry way.

I know that some states are starting to require you to go through counseling before getting divorce.

the problem i have with that is if you have cheating spouse or abusive spouse or even a spouse that has a drug addiction,an alcoholic,or an addiction they refuse to get for.
counseling would be a waste of time.

they say there is 3 major things that cause divorces.
1)money
2)sex
3)lack of comunication or none at all.then you have people who married for the simple fact of convience-like making ends meet but we can do whatever we want with whomever we want.this way we have more money and we can afford to do what we want.

I don't understand why get married when you can just live together.

ok we go into another problem-churches don't approve of living when you are not married.

divorce causes pain,distrust and sometimes hatred of the opposite sex and sometimes really deep depression and even suicide.
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