Saturday, August 07, 2010

same sex relationships

here is another subject that politicians make a stance on-either for or against.

my personal belief is I don't like it,but in the same sentence I have nothing against the person who is.its not the person i don't like but its the act i am against.its the same way with some one who is a adulterer or they drink-i am not against them they are still my friend it is the thing that they do i don't like.

I feel everyone has the right to be what they want to be and who they want to be with.I don't understand it but its not for me to understand.my friends all i ask is you be honest with me and not be ashamed of it.for i will not condemn you or give you a long lecture for i am pretty sure you have heard all of it by now.

you see i once had a friend for years i did not know he was interested in the same sex,to make it worse because i didn't know when we went out i would try to set him up with a very pretty lady. that went on for several years and when i asked him if he did not care for females his reply was yes.
well one day out of the blue he came to me and said he was gay.
i asked him why he never said anything to me before now.he claims that i would stop being his friend.i told him that would never happened.well needless to say we are no longer friends,i did not stop being his friend he stopped being my friend.

like i said i don't have to like the things you do,but once your are my friend you are my friend.

you have my sympathies for people have no shame and they will pick on you and call you names and sometimes even your own family members will turn against you.
i have seen so much crap in my lifetime and i have see some things i had no business seeing-that s just being in the military and the things you see right there in the barrack things you would think you would only see downtown redlight district.
but enough of my raving for tonight.

abortion?????????????

now i know this a very touchy subject to many people who are for it and who are against it.

politicians make a stand for it or against it and you have right for life organization and ect ect.well i have a problem with the procedures with which it is done.THE doctor are in it for one thing and one thing only and its the money.

you can't blame them since there is a long list of clients waiting for them to do it.as long as their is women who wants it done they will be there to get it done.but the bottom line is the procedure-they line up the women put then in a table go through the procedure and then pass them along so they can get on to the next one.

abortion is solely up up to the person or persons who want them-instead of putting them down how about talking to them during this time-for i know it was a not an easy choice for them.they need counselling not condemnation.

whether you approve of it or not it is their decision and they need support. we don't know why they are doing it nor should you care-it is their body and they have to suffer the aftermath.
this post is not to condemn nor is it to approve of the procedure.
women I have one question for you before you decide to get an aboltion.
research the clinic you are going to-make sure it is sterile and that she offer counselling afterwards.that you not just another number and that they follow up to make sure they have removed all of the fetus,and that there is no infections.yes i understand there is good clinics and i will tell you there is bad ones as well. I have heard to many horror stories than literally makes me sick.leaving parts of the fetus inside and cause the woman much pain and later death from septic poisoning.

or another instances she bled to death cause they perform the procedure and push her out the door.I am not here to condemn you or try to talk you out of it.I just want you to be careful and choose the right doctor and clinic.even though this is 2010 there is still places that don't care about your health just the money.

so please please please research research research before you jump at the first clinic you see.

and for you people who loves to condemn and have nothing to do with the women afterwards-WHAT WOULD JESUS DO????? he would forgive them and enfold them in his arms and give them nothing but love.

you don't know the situation of any of thoses women who made this choice and sometimes it may not be their choice. be more considerate and supportive,you don't have to like it nor do you have to accept it-just be there for them.

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