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outside of abusive spouse or a cheating spouse there should not be a real reason for one,well i am sure many will disagree with me.
I am mainly talking about the couple that decides they will get married and if it don't work we get divorce.now if you go into a marriage already thinking that more in likely it will fail and you go on your very merry way.
I know that some states are starting to require you to go through counseling before getting divorce.
the problem i have with that is if you have cheating spouse or abusive spouse or even a spouse that has a drug addiction,an alcoholic,or an addiction they refuse to get for.
counseling would be a waste of time.
they say there is 3 major things that cause divorces.
1)money
2)sex
3)lack of comunication or none at all. then you have people who married for the simple fact of convience-like making ends meet but we can do whatever we want with whomever we want.this way we have more money and we can afford to do what we want.
I don't understand why get married when you can just live together.
ok we go into another problem-churches don't approve of living when you are not married.
divorce causes pain,distrust and sometimes hatred of the opposite sex and sometimes really deep depression and even suicide.
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